(Closed) Silly bride's vent.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Um, no. What are they supposed to say? “She’s an okay bride.” Just so you feel better about yourself. That’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard.

Post # 4
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@sasi:  Sorry, but this is ridiculous. Every bride deserves to be told she’s beautiful on HER day.  It’s silly to even think they’re comparing you to her, after all it’s HER day, people are going to talk about HER. You’ll get the same comments on YOUR day. Not to mention they’re months apart, I doubt anyone is going to still be thinking about your cousin’s wedding(s).

Post # 5
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332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

While I think the “you’re the prettiest bride I’ve ever seen” is a bit cliché since you always hear that, I do think each bride is beautiful for their own reasons. They were just complimenting her just as they will for you. I don’t think they make a compliment to her and think “yeah you look better than she will” because you know you’ll look stunning on your day. Hope you don’t feel bad at the next one.  

Post # 7
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8359 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Sorry you feel like that but if it too hard for you to face then maybe you should decline the invites rather than be upset/jealous/negative on another brides big day. I only say that because since we are human our emotions can often show unintentionally on our faces!

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