(Closed) "Silly girl". Tired of comments. Rant.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh yeah.  I always loved those comments.  I still hear them quite frequently at work and I honestly just ignore everything.  

Post # 4
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9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why would someone say that????

At my work everyone was super excited…but that may be because I’m a teacher at a school full of engaged, recently married, or only-married-a-few-years women…

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If someone asked me “why are you getting married?” I would ask them “why are you in my face?” or reply “why do you think?”…

Obviously they are mean and bitter people and that’s why their relationships did not work out lol. Ignore them. 

Post # 6
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

How rude of that lady! Ugh so annoying and mean. I’ve been there and gotten all those comments. I think you need to be more direct with those people and brush them off, eventually they’ll get the hint that you don’t care about their opinion so they should keep it to themselves. And yes people from my work that have said things to me like that are usually sad people dissatisfied with their love life. Don’t let them get to you!

Post # 7
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Worker bee

I can see how that’d get annoying. Wedding naysayers should shush.

Congrats to you! 😀

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

That’s rude… You shouldn’t let it bother you, clearly it’s their problem and not yours. I get it though, I’m so not interested in having any interactions like that, that I just kind of give minimal answers and let the discussion end any time my engagement or future wedding gets brought up around more than just my closest friends and family. People will always take the opportunity to criticize others’ choices that make them feel uncomfortable with their own lives. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Some people are obnoxious.

Post # 10
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2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

She totally has a bug up her butt, people can be so rude. Just because they fail at something, does not mean YOU will.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Ugh, rude! I don’t understand the way some people think – that because they had one bad experience with something, it’s all bad and nobody should do it. That’s silly.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

Wow, she is pretty rude. Keep the comments to yourself lady.

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