(Closed) Silly issue with cousin’s wedding

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
6 posts
  • Wedding: November 2010


Since you’ll be married at the time of her wedding I see no problem with writing your married name.

Post # 4
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I would reply with your married name since that is how your escort card should be at the wedding.

Post # 5
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Reply as future Mrs. xxxx. Hopefully she’ll get the hint 🙂

Post # 6
907 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I agree. Putting down your married name is totally fine.

Post # 8
1077 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Jenny Jones…soon to be Smith 🙂

I think that would be friendly, share a little pre-wedding excitement, and see to it that your escort card is in your new name.  In my crown few people change their names, so I wouldn’t assume without a prompt.  She’ll probably appreciate the heads up as she tries to get her stuff done early.

Post # 9
12 posts

I got married a month after my cousin, and she told me she was very much looking forward to seeing Mr. and Mrs. X on placecards for the first time, which I thought was awesome.  I say go for it! 

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