(Closed) Silly question: how do you wear lingerie?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Haha that’s why I don’t wear it much.  I think that you should just change into it when he is just hanging out watching TV or something and surprise him.  You probably won’t be wearing it long enough to feel awkward about being sexy.

Post # 4
Member
5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh, good AsB!!! lol. And then you can go sit casually next to him on the couch like it’s no big (just like PJ’s)! lol.

that said, I’m not really one for that sort of thing, either. Embarassed

Post # 5
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803 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

i’ll put it on when he’s not looking and then put my normal robe or jucy suit over it, so he doesnt expect anything.  then, snuggling on the counch he’ll realize that there is more going on than meets the eye 😉

Post # 7
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7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Haha. I have a TON of lingerie, but I hardly wear it either.

I do it nonchalantly. I agree with surprising him with it. Wear it under your clothes and then just whip them off and “BAM” there it is. I’ve also hidden it in the bathroom and changed on the sly before. You can change while he’s in the other room and then pull a “Honey, can you come here for a second?”

There’s lots of creative ways to do it.

I also agree about the awkwardness. You won’t be wearing it long enough for all that. 😉

Post # 9
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh have you seen The Devil Wears Prada?  When she starts unbuttoning her shirt and she has a bustier on and asks her boyfriend if he likes it?

Post # 11
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226 posts
Helper bee

I don’t wear lingerie very often either. I usually change into it after I’ve showered, put on a nice smelling lotion and pinned my hair out of the way. That way I feel relaxed and comfy and confident that I may be tied into some lacey contraption, but I’m soft and I smell good! I don’t tell Fiance that I’m going to put lingerie on. I just change and come out “for a glass of water.” By the time I’m leaving the kitchen, I have his company.

Post # 12
Member
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

good question! ive bought a ton for the honeymoon and was thinking the same thing!

Post # 13
Member
134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

@VioletVeil:  HAHA!  That’s some sly stuff.

Post # 14
Member
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I have done it a few ways:

1. Put it on under your clothes on date night and give him a peak while you are out and that will make him sweat with anticipation until you get home when he can rip your clothes off.

2. Tell him you’ve got something for him and make him sit on the bed and change in the closet and do a little show for him as you walk towards the bed – this one takes some balls or some wine LOL

3. Get all dolled up before he gets home for work and be home waiting for him on the bed etc. or my FIs favourite I was cooking dinner all dolled up when he got home!

Post # 15
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1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

LOVE your ideas Mrs.Martin!!

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