Post # 17
Of course you’re being sensitive – they’re your wedding photos! You have a right to be sensitive! And the people you show them to have a duty to not be asses, and those folks have failed. I’m so sorry that they said those things to you. I bet your wedding was beautiful! Try to forget their comments, and focus on your own memories of the day.
Post # 18
I don’t think you’re being overly sensitive at all. They are probably just jealous that they weren’t able to attend.
Post # 19
So sorry that this happened to you! It sounds as though other are being terribly rude to you. I’m sure your hubby is dreamy and all that matters is YOUR opinion! Enjoy being a newlywed and try not to let these other girls ruin this special bonding time with your new husband!
Post # 20
Thank you everyone for all your support!! I feel a little better:)
As carriesu2003 said, maybe wedding photos are really meant to be just for the family.
As many of you have pointed it I guess my friends weren’t trying to be mean, they were just rude. It was shocking to me because they seem to be nice people (maybe just too opinionated even when their opinions aren’t being asked) they even got me cute wedding gifts although they weren’t invited…is it really much easier to buy someone a gift than to say something nice about her wedding photos?
So maybe I just learned that “nice” and “polite” don’t always come together.
Post # 21
I cannot believe your one co-worker made such comments about your husbands physical appearance. Who does that??? You are not being hypersensitive– you should be upset. I don’t think their comments are innocent, they’re downright hurtful. I really think you need to take their comments with a grain of salt.
Why couldn’t these people make it to the wedding? Where they not invited? If that’s the case then I definitely agree with some of the other posters that these co-workers and “friends” are jealous! There are too many people in this world that really don’t know how to be happy for other people.
Were you happy with your wedding? Are you in love with your husband & excited to get to share your life with him? That’s all that matters.
Post # 22
i think people make comments about others when they have issues in their own life. when i showed pictures of my fi (who was my bf at the time and i was very excited about dating him) to my uncle, he commented that he looks old and is balding. now that’s not what you tell your niece about her new bf! but i know he hates his life right now and wants to make everyone miserable with him. i’m not looking forward to hearing what he has to say at our wedding!