- 5 years ago
I’ll try to make this short and concise.
This girl and I went to high school together. We had shared one class. We didn’t have mutual friends so we never really talked or hung out after that.
She friend requested me and I accepted. I had remembered her and thought it was no big deal.
She started commenting on every status/picture, even ‘liking’ the same things I did. It was a little strange, but I thought maybe she was an active Facebook user.
I don’t live in my hometown anymore. One time I was in town for a few days. I made an update saying if anyone wanted to get together while I was in town to give me a call, and I left my number. She called me, to my surprise, and wanted to go out for drinks that night. I didn’t have plans, so I agreed.
While out, we talked and it seemed we had a lot in common. Even though I never saw her around, she insisted my friends growing up and her were very close.
I love a certain musician and she said he was her favorite, too. Later she asked if I would accompany her to a concert of that artist. Then later she confessed she had never really heard of him…
Once back in my city, she started calling me all of the time. Then she would leave these semi angry voicemails when I didn’t return her calls or answer.
Then she started telling people I was her best friend…even though we have hung out a few times and didn’t know each other well.
She even invited me to her brother’s b-day vacation in Vegas, and said she’d pay for my whole trip. I declined.
When my fiance bought me a promise ring she made a snarky comment about it. Then right after she “announced” her boyfriend gave her a promise ring.
When I got engaged she’d message me repeatedly trying to find out the details of my wedding, and making comments that she presumed she was invited to the wedding…my intimate wedding of 10.
Just a week ago my fiance and I went to see Christmas lights. There’s a neighborhood down the street that goes all out. It’s not a very well known spot. I posted a picture of my fiance and I at it. This girl asked where it was (along with a few others asking this question). I said where it was, never thinking she would drive 2 hours out of her way.
What’s even weirder. I have a picture of my fiance and I in front of this one tree and I made it my default. Well, she and her bf took a picture in front of the same tree and she made it her default picture.
I have so many other examples, but I’ll leave it at that.
I can’t help but feel a little creeped out and annoyed.
Do you think she’s harmless, or do I need to ‘unfriend’ her?
Should I talk to her about how it makes me uncomfortable? I’m honestly a little afraid of how she’d handle that. If so, what do I say?