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Bumble bee
MrsMu: I did not respond to each and every poster on this thread.
Post # 47
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Buzzing bee
phoebephoebo: you said everything I would want to say in a much more coherent way 🙂 x
goldie.girl: OP: I am going to second, third, forth what the other ladies have said. Come join us on the 1+ it is the most supportive thread on here for us that are struggling with the TTC process. Honestly until I was in this position myself I had NO IDEA what infertility felt like and I too thought people were being a little “dramatic” when they said their hearts break at every announcement so I try not to judge people that don’t understand too harshly. But now I am the one that cries at every announcement, I want to scream and shout about how it’s not fair and I feel like my heart cracks just a little bit more every time someone announces (or complains about their children/pregnancy etc). I hope you are ok xx
And just because it is relevant:
Post # 48
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Helper bee
phoebephoebo: thank you SO much. Your support means a lot to me! It’s hard feeling alone and feeling guilty about something I really cannot control.
Post # 49
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sarals24: I never said, and would never say to anyone besides maybe my husband, that I felt it was unfair that my SIL is pregnant and im man not. I told her that regarding a cousin that was so ill-prepared it was literally nauseating. My SIL and Brother-In-Law are good people and good parents, just not always able to be as independent as someone with 2 kids and planning on a 3rd might ought to be. IMHO