(Closed) Sister breaking my heart (very long)

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2286 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’m so sorry about this ๐Ÿ™

From what you’ve said it seems like the medication is taking its toll. I’m wondering if your brother in law can get in touch with your sister’s doctor and tell them that this medication is causing some very difficult and terrible mood swings. Hopefully there’s an alternative. Other than that, I honestly think you’ve done everything you can.

Post # 5
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Ive had similiar family issues over my wedding. And it is the most horrible thing to have to go through. Miscommunication and stories getting blown out of proportion over reacting…it just snow balls! Im so sorry to hear another bride is having an issue too. I agree with misshelen, this medicine seems to be making your sister someone shes not.  The doctor DEF needs to be contacted! I think you should keep your sister in the wedding, after all she is your sister. And hopefully, once this medication thing is straightened out youll have her back and REALLY wish she wouldve been by your side on your big day!

good luck and keep your head up!

Post # 6
5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

wow… ((hugs)) I am SO SO sorry you’re family is going through this… for you AND your sister, who seems to just be tormented within herself.

The best advice I can give is to do whatever you can to let every ounce of pride go and love her with ALL the love you can… again and again and again.

I would NOT and I mean would NOT talk to her without praying first…

that all your words be spirit led and that all ears and hearts would be receptive. That your words would NOT be twisted and that the truth will prevail in this… That Psalm 91 says that the arrows that fly by day will not penetrate you and that your heart will not be hurt by the things said… but rather become stronger in His love to love her. That her hurt would be overwhelmed with Christs love and that He would and WILL mend your family. That as you seek him and seek to keep your heart clean of hurt & bitterness that he would turn this situation to only build you together and grow each of you to a new place of maturity. That the medication she is on would NOT have a negative effect and will work as it is intended to and that while she’s on it her mind and heart would be protected by the Blood of the Lamd.. that she will rise above the “side effects” and walk whole and free from the things that are currently in her heart!

I would pray against ALL strife and claim right now that the things trying to destroy your family will not and will not prosper!

I’ve seen some of your other response posts and I believe that as you turn your heart full on to God in this and ask for His love that your whole family will walk out of this more together than apart.

*praying for you*

Sorry I couldn’t give more “advice” I just know that when in doubt prayer works! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 7
2889 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You have made me very glad I don’t follow doctor’s orders ๐Ÿ™‚  They gave me that stuff for my fibromyalgia but i don’t take pills. Now I am very glad. ๐Ÿ˜€ 

 I think you have done all you can do to smooth things over. I would not let this get me down or steal my joy. Just keep loving on and praying for your sister, that is all you can do. I will definitely be praying that your sister finds the right doctor to help her through this rough patch.

Sorry you are going through this. This is supposed to be a happy time. Keep your chin up. This to shall pass. *Hugs*

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