(Closed) Sister Bridesmaid Drama

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

As someone who went through pretty much the same thing, my experience has been just saying” I’m sorry you’re upset/feel this way, but this is Our wedding and our decision.” Eventually my mom understood this was how it was going to be. I ended up with no wedding party and a small 15 person wedding. 

Post # 3
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11517 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

a lot of people think that bridal parties have to include siblings or should be all about family.  

You have whoever you think is right, your mom will get over it.  Perhaps you can involve your sister in another way – maybe have her do a reading or something?

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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rrharper:  I beg to differ that your Fiance would have to add anyone- you don’t need matching numbers-but nevertheless, I think your choice should be respected. Not only are you having a small wedding, but you and your sister aren’t close. If you want to compromise to please your mother, you could ask your sister to do a reading.

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