(Closed) Sister drama

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MissMellow:

I really hope your sister gets any help she needs. However  you might want to start looking for a new Maid/Matron of Honor. When wedding planning becomes intense, between meeting vendors, picking this and that et al, you need someone who will be there for you 110%. Your sister’s absense will only cause you grief, frustration, and anger when you need calm and reassurance.

Post # 4
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1747 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think for you and for her, the best idea is to not try to convince her to take on a role she seems to be uncomfortable and unwilling to deal with. I would certainly invite her and hope for the best, but in order to really keep the energy positive, this may sound selfish, but you may want to not fight this battle right now.

Her problems won’t be dealt with quickly and there is probably very little you can do except be there as a shoulder to cry on when she needs it.

As she can not be there for you, I would forget about having her as your Maid/Matron of Honor and not bring it up again.

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