(Closed) Sister gave me ultimatum to move wedding date :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
4767 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow wow wow. Your sis seems like a spoiled little eh um… And your parents supporting her?! 

So your gonna postpone a year for a selfish cow? what if she decids to get her nails done on that day instead a year from now?

You gonna postone your life again for this twat?

Start living YOUR life and stop letting your sister and fam dictate it.  It sounds as if this is not the first time you’ve given into your sis.

Post # 64
357 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Your sister is being ridiculous.  I agree with pp’s who suggested that she has other motivations.  I’m sure the other bride would totally understand if she didn’t help decorate.

If my sister did this to me, I would definitely not move my date.  And that’s saying a lot, because I’ve put up with a lot of crap from my siblings.

Post # 65
7371 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Wow. I wouldn’t have moved shit. 

Post # 66
3172 posts
Sugar bee

You don’t have to move your wedding date for anyone.  I would not have changed it.

Post # 68
196 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@paula1248:  Yes! completely agree!

Keep your date!! It is YOUR wedding, do what YOU want! I know it is a sister, but she made her choice… 

Post # 69
207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

this is 100% her problem, NO WAY should you change your wedding because SHE made a mistake, that’s insane!!!! Your life doesn’t revolve around other people!!! 

Post # 70
1262 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@FutureMrsRoos:  Seriously? You are going to push it back nine bloody months because your sister refuses to budge on something she could technically do, and is her fault for not having known? For me, this would be permanently damaging to my relationship with her. I hope she is prepared for you guys to never be close again, because I highly doubt that you will ever completely forget that she made you move your wedding date by nine months because of her own carelessness, and was a total bitch about it on top of it all.

Post # 71
1334 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo

Am I the only one who’s concerned that Fiance doesn’t care? Why is he letting YOU do all the fighting for what will be the most special day of BOTH your lives? I think this guy needs to step up and start helping you out.

Also, I second everyone else – you should not have changed the date. I understand that you want to accomodate everyone, especially your sister. but it’s impossible to please everyone. the bride and groom’s needs should absolutely be the priority. Your sister needs to realise that missing out on your big day is not even an option. 

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