- 2 years ago
- Wedding: August 2017
My future Sister in law and I have never gotten along. She’s always been jealous of the relationship I have with her brother and always tries to compete with me. We’ve gotten into many arguments, all centred around her not getting her way which she is used to. After the last argument (around the time I got engaged) i chose my bridesmaids and to this day I do not regret not asking her to stand in my wedding. My fiancé was completely ok with this as he knows how she’s always treated me. Anyways. She made a big deal that i didn’t ask her to be a bridesmaid even though I asked her to help in other ways. even during my bridal shower she didn’t ask to take one picture with me, she hasn’t asked to help with the wedding planning in any way (even before I picked my bridesmaids), she doesn’t even talk to me let alone talk about the wedding. it’s very clear we don’t like each other.
Anyways, my bachelorette party is coming up and I keep reading that it is customary to have your future sister in law Invited. ontop of us not liking each other, she’s completely against drinking and none of my friends like her. She wouldn’t even have a good time.
im sure she’ll make a big deal if she isn’t invited but I really don’t want her to come and pout the whole time and ruin my weekend with my friends
Do I have to invite her to my bachelorette?