- 4 years ago
- Wedding: April 2017
So I asked my fiance’s sister to be my matron of honor. Since then, it’s been nothing but drama. First starting with my engagement, she told others In the family that she felt, we were rushing things. Which hurt my feelings, I’m sure I’m being to sensitive. Then she started to coordinate with my maid of honor and bridesmaid about future events, such as the bridal shower. I didn’t want any part of this, I was hoping for it to be a surprise. Not even 2 days after her communicating with the others girls, she managed to offend everyone. My entire bridal party started calling me, complaining that’s she was asking for 300 dollars per person. I felt embarrassed and so uncomfortable. I told her some of my bridesmaid do not make as much money. It seem like she understood, but then continued to talk poorly about my friends. Eventually my friends were so upset with all the fighting, my best friend quit the wedding, well actually two did. I never wanted to know anything about the bridal shower, but because of all the fighting I offered to help pay for whatever they needed. I just feel heartbroken that I lost a friend and another friend refuses to be apart of this special day. Of course, my future sister in law has kept planning. I then became extremely overwhelmed with all of the drama, and it gets worse. My FIANCE QUITS HIS JOB!!! I told my sister in law we might have to reschedule the wedding, she was sweet and understanding. I thought for sure, even with all the drama she’s caused, it was still really kind of her to be there for me. Well, turns out days later, she told my fiancés side of the family that he quit his job because he felt pressure about the wedding. And that was his way out, which is completely false, my fiance actually wanted to keep the same wedding date. After 2 anxiety attacks, I feel sad, helpless and heartbroken. My fiance has a really big supportive family. That’s something that I’ve never been blessed with. So when I realized how much his family loved him, I was hoping to be apart of the love fest. Boy was I completely wrong, what’s should I do?!!