Sister/MOH Issues – Help!

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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773 posts
Busy bee

What a great SIL! Seriously. very comforting and reassuring. Dont worry about your sister, she may very well be jealous. She/s not the bride, she has no say. 

Enjoy your engagment and wedding planning and do not ask if it’s ‘okay’ again. It’s your wedding.

 

 

Post # 3
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2346 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

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eawalle :  If it were me, I’d talk to my sister and let her know how hurtful her comment was and make my decision of asking her to be Maid/Matron of Honor based off of that. 

Post # 4
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180 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2020

Wow. There’s no way your sister didn’t know she was hurting you. She set out that day SPECIFICALLY to hurt you. By saying horrible lies about your brother, horrible things about your relationship, about you. Idk how I would get over that honestly. Your brother but ESPECIALLY SIL sound fabulous. Good on SIL for not being cray cray. I’d cut sister out of planning and all wedding talk. ALL wedding talk. I just don’t know if I could ever come back from someone I trusted telling me horrible lies that my family would shun me if they didn’t get their way. Hopefully you find comfort in the solid relationships you clearly have elsewhere in your life and family. But she would be strictly a guest after pulling something like that with me. 

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