(Closed) Sister of the groom

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think I’d leave her in just in case she did come around. And if she doesn’t, and she sees her name in the program later, maybe it’ll make her feel bad (which it sounds like she may deserve).

Can you try calling her, though, and talking to her directly? I know I am an old lady, but somehow texting about such an important/emotional issue seems wrong.

Post # 5
805 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Leave the option open for her to come if she wants and fret no more about it as you have enough to worry about without all this. Leave her name on the programme like the first bee said. You have done all that you can. Enjoy your day no matter what.

Post # 6
7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’d leave her in. My Future Sister-In-Law and I got along until the dress drama. She then was in and out and then decided to stay in as of March, so we put her in. If she decides to cause any more drama in the next week, then she is going to be the one that looks bad having her name in there. People will ask her why she wasn’t a bridesmaid and she will have to explain to them.

Hopefully your Future Sister-In-Law will come around after talking to her, especially if you guys get along. How she could do this to her bro is beyond me though, whether you get along or not.

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