(Closed) Sister problems

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Actually it sounds like she thought she was cut out of the Bach party, I don’t see her not wanting to be in the wedding from what you wrote. The problem with having a family member be moh is that the whole sister thing comes into play and everyone says anything they want. Step back and ask yourself if you framed everything the same way you would have to a friend. If the answers no then I would start with that. From what you wrote it sounds like you both overreacted, but that’s family. I would call and try to set things right the same way you would a friend.

Post # 5
8438 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@bricon:  Im with you it sounded like she was out of the Bach party. I definately think you overreacted and yes I think your sister has the right to feel a bit upset over being the backup MOH- it hurts peoples feelings to be second choice!

But if you have been hounding her for weeks then maybe she does want out because it certainly isn’t nice to be constantly hounded by someone!

3 weeks is enough time to get a Bridesmaid or Best Man dress fitted so I would leave her to it.

I think you need to apologise for overreacting and if it was me I certainly wouldn’t say what you wrote to her- I think it will just inflame the situation.


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