- 8 years ago
- Wedding: February 2011
So I had my bridal shower yesterday and it was amazing. Into the night, it ended up being my 2 sisters, my Maid/Matron of Honor, and two of my good guy friends (one of which is an ex-flame). We were all having a great time, singing karaoke and having a dance party in the living room.
As it got later and later, sister1 (who has a long term, 10 year, monogamous, common law boyfriend) and my ex-flame/current friend started getting very cozy, dancing in appropriately (which shut everyone else’s dancing down), eventually cuddling up on a small chair together with their arms around eachother.
During the inappropriate dancing, everyone else got pretty uncomfortable and sister2 made a comment to let sister1 know to tone it down a bit. this made everything more awkward and sister1 & my friend ignored her. Sister2 then left. I kept giving Sister1 inconspicuous looks to let her know no one was impressed with their behaviour and she should cut it out, but things kept escalating. I eventually left and they were so busy cuddling and having a tete-a-tete that they didn’t even notice me leave.
I didn’t let on that I found it so upsetting, I didn’t want to draw even more attention to it or to give anyone the wrong idea that I was jealous or something, cause I’m not. I just think it was inappropriate and think that sisters shouldn’t do that with eachother’s exes, even if they are still friends. It might seem extreme to some people, but I consider that cheating. Her boyfriend sure as hell wouldn’t be too impressed if he knew about it and I know she’d be furious if he did what she did. I’m really mad at my sister and friend about this. Even if it had been on another day, not on my shower day I probably wouldn’t be so p.o’d.
I’m the youngest and my sister is 9years older than me and my friend, just some background, it’s not like she’s my flirty baby sister or anything, I thought she’d be old enough to know better. I guess part of the reason I’m so mad and hurt is that she knew it was making me angry and she didn’t care. I might be able to avoid her today, but I have to see her for a family thing next weekend and I can’t even look at her. All I would want to say is “What the hell is wrong with you?!”