(Closed) sister rant

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t really have advice for you but I would be pissed if that happened to me. It sounds kind of like your sister might be a little jealous her little sis is getting married and maybe taking it out on you by acting out like that.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I’d find this really wrong too.  I know I’d be upset if my fiance was cuddling with another girl and dancing so inappropriately with her that people found it offensive.  I understand how it would upset you but was she even thinking about her boyfriend?  

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Honestly, if my sister danced flirty with my Ex I wouldn’t give a flying fruitcake, unless she was trully embarassing me, but if it upset you I would let her know how you feel. If this happened last night and there was alcohol involved give her some time to come around and apologize.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

As far as how your sister and ex’s behavior affected you, I would be upset, but I think it’s something you might just need to deal with.  I would be more upset about your sister’s behavior and what it says about her relationship with her boyfriend.  And, of course, generally behaving inappropriately is both annoying and rude.

Maybe it would be good to have a chat with your sister (and the friend, if you think it’s a good idea) to share your feelings/thoughts and see if maybe there is something going on under the surface with her (not to excuse the behavior, but perhaps to explain it).  Good luck!

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