(Closed) Sister upset over not being MOH

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3169 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think you need to talk to your sister about this. I see both sides because if you are close to your sister, I would think she should be your Maid/Matron of Honor but you already asked your friend so you shouldn’t take it away from her. Is your sister married? She could be your Matron of Honor.

Post # 4
6258 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

If she didn’t really express interest in even being in the wedding, she doesn’t get to be upset now that she dosen’t have the highest role. 

That said, I had two maids of honor, my sister who is younger and knows nothing about weddings, and my best friend, who will research for hours for me and has an opinion on everything under the sun.

Post # 5
105 posts
Blushing bee

Just explain to her what you expect out of an Maid/Matron of Honor and then explain to her she’s very important to you, you want her to be a part of your wedding and want her to be able to relax and enjoy the wedding instead of running errants. Or something like that.

I think a good long talk with your sister will fix things. And if the title 2nd Maid/Matron of Honor will fix it, than just give her that title. 

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