(Closed) Sister wants to be a wife with kids, BUT

posted 1 year ago in The Lounge
Post # 16
5547 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

Maybe she is happy? …. people don’t have ro follow your life choices in order to be considered happy

This is really gross.

Post # 17
167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

Have you ever considered that your sister may be an independent, free-spirited person who does not need to be “claimed”? There’s no such thing as a ‘man-stealer’, men are not passive victims of women who flirt with them. I’m not saying she’s not in the wrong for flirting with men who have partners, but I hate when the blame is always placed entirely on the woman as if all men are cheaters by default.

Either way, I don’t see why you’re so concerned with your sister’s life. Just let her be imo. 

Post # 18
9815 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

Oh come on. Have you actually talked to her like a human being with feelings and asked if she is happy. Maybe she doesn’t want your help and is content. I’m watching this thread – criticizing lifestyle choices/nesting choices is against the TOS. I will leave open for now, but I’m guessing you won’t get the feedback you want.


Post # 19
762 posts
Busy bee

This doesn’t sound at all like a real post. 

“Can a hoe be turned into a housewife?” That’s a headline.. not an actual phrase that a real person would come out with when writing a post like this. 

It all sounds so contrived. 

Post # 20
88 posts
Worker bee

Assuming this is a serious post, I think she is a grown woman that can make that decision for herself and if she needs help making the right choices then she will ask.

‘Hoe to a housewife’ would be my Housewives tagline though.

Post # 21
126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2019 - City, State

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butternutter :  Yep. All of this reads like an incel/redpill troll post about what they think women are like. Hoe/housewife is jargon from that slice of the world. They love the whole narrative of a woman hitting 30 and wanting to change, too.

Post # 22
6425 posts
Bee Keeper

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valintine :  PREACH GIRL!

OP you sound so judgmental of your OWN sister???  Who cares what does on the weekend??  Or how she chooses to spend her time and “love”  Sure she is super flirtatious but seriously easy on her

Post # 23
3970 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - Canada

It’s hard to imagine that this is real but on the off chance it is, I second valintine  advice. I too suspect some sort of assault as the root cause of her inability to connect with people. IF your sister asks for your advice, check your judgment and give her helpful advice, like seek therapy to learn how to have meaningful relationships. Don’t judge her life and choices, because you clearly have no idea why she does what she does. FYI, you’re also not perfect so check yourself before you drag someone else through the mud. 

Post # 24
10216 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Cant turn a ho into a housewife
Hos don’t act right
There’s hos on a mission, an hoes on a crack-pipe
Hey ho how ya doing, where ya been?
Probably doing ho stuff cause there you ho again


Post # 25
1090 posts
Bumble bee

Again, assuming this post is real: You claim she has no emotional attachment to the family, yet she always wants to see your baby. Sounds like she does have an emotional attachment: she sounds like a loving aunt, and a free spirit. What’s wrong with that? 

Also, you claimed she’s a tall, stunning, blonde bartender. Am I sensing it’s not your baby you don’t want her to be around, but maybe your husband?

Post # 26
1352 posts
Bumble bee

This post sounds like it was written by a man.


Post # 27
2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019 - Chateau Lake Louise

Fishing expedition for clickbait a’la “ungrateful over gramma’s ring” much?

Post # 28
6879 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016


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Post # 29
9818 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Is OP an 18 year old boy?

Post # 30
3419 posts
Sugar bee

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alexisbumblebee :  Can a hoe be turned into a housewife???

Well, aren’t you just a peach.


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