- 2 years ago
- Wedding: July 2019
“….and sorry, if you’ve been with over 100 men and gladly own it, a hoe is an appropriate word” .
No it isnt . Apart from the ugly sexist judgemental aspect, a ‘ho(e) , is a word short for ‘whore’ , ie another term for a prostitute, who sells sex for money or some other currency Nowhere in your diatribe against your sister do you say she actually does this .. And I feel sure you would if she did.
Oh my god I actually can’t cope with you.. did you really just go there and make that comparison? In real life? And then pass it off as a “Trigger Warning” that anyone that reacts to it is the unreasonable one..?
Im pretty confident at this stage, based on this and other posts, that OP isn’t a genuine person/poster. Unfortunately you are..
Samantha Jones would be all over this.
The OP’s sister might be sleeping with a lot of guys. Who cares. Plenty of people have lots of partners, and they go on to have great relationships. She is making lewd comments around people – have a conversation with her, if you care to.
The problem here is not your half sister. The problem here is you. Yeah, I wouldn’t want someone around who was making lewd comments and flirting with guys all the time – it’s annoying. But the way you speak feels…almost sociopathic to me. I might get annoyed about your sister, but your hateful, condescending attitude towards anything you don’t understand or agree with is much, much more concerning.
Stop worrying about your sister and work on your own issues.
AND for the last god damn time, I don’t give a shit who has one night stands!!! I don’t CARE! That is not the point! Re-read what I have already said before you comment because you sound stupid coming into a convo not even knowing wtf you’re saying. Omg.
Let’s use our brains, ladies. Since we’re so quick to be typing warriors. Can we be educated too or not?
You are coming across as being pretty unhinged. Thank you for proving my point.
OP, you clearly “give a shit” about people having one night stands. The whole premise of your OP is that you give a shit about your sister engaging in a lifestyle that includes having one night stands. If you didn’t give a shit that she behaves this way, you wouldn’t have posted at all.
I’m happily married too (you seem to think that can’t co-exist with a history of one night stands) and about around college I sort of acted like this. Didn’t flirt with everyone, but had an active sex life and sort of owned that as my identity. I knew it was a “strength” of mine, so why not play it up?
It got old eventually, my self esteem improved, and I found my husband (who you might call a “hoe” too, or maybe not, because he’s a man). We are great together because we don’t shame each other for our pasts.
I am not threatened by other women, even those who have an active sex life. There are many attractive and sexy women out there but I trust my husband so it’s a non-issue. And if my husband did do something shady or cheated, then I’m going to have a problem with him, not the woman. She has no obligation to me. He’s the one who said vows.
It sounds like your sister is being put into a box by people who know her, including of course you. She can definitely grow and change and have what she wants, and there’s no shame in changing your mind on what you want in life. But it’s going to be an uphill battle if everyone in her life treats her like you do. Best of luck to her.
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