- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
First time poster here. 🙂 I am getting married next october and have been having a heck of a time trying to choose my bridesmaids. I have had two close friends choose their bridesmaids within a week of getting engaged and by the time the wedding came, they inevitably were unhappy with their decisions. So I am taking my time and SERIOUSLY over-analyzing. I feel like I am judging each of my friends to see if they are good enough. that isn’t fair!
On top of that my sister has really let me down. we have never been close and she dis-owns everyone in our family every six months then comes around again. it’s been frustrating for quite some time. Recently she moved to a rural area with her husband and kids and didn’t tell us about it.
I have called three times, text and even facebooked her. Not only has she not responded, but I just found out that she was in town and dind’t even call or make any effort with me. Mind you, she never usually calls me when she is in town. BUt this time I am newly engaged and i asked her two weeks prior to her coming, to call me next time she was in town. I have also had multiple attempts at getting ahold of her in between then and now. I’m hurt. I have been trying so hard to get ahold of her becuase I finally decided to ask her to be a bridesmaid in my wedding (which was a hard decision becuase I felt she would let me down) but now I can’t even get ahold of her to ask…..so why would i think she would be available for me for any other parts of the wedding? What do you think? Too much family drama to not ask?
Does she really deserve it?