- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
I’ve never posted here but I was hoping someone might be able to give me some advice.
I asked my older sister to be my maid of honor shortly after I got engaged. Since that moment she has just been terrible to me.
She freaked out on me when my soon to be sister in law set the date for my bachlorette party; she wanted to throw me that party! But I asked the other bridesmaids to do it since my sister doesn’t drink and I do.
So I asked her if she would throw me a shower instead, oh she would love too! But then it was constant complaining, why do you have to invite so many people, cut the list down, it’s not fair you got more presents at your shower than I did at mine! You’re a spoiled brat!
So I asked her to pick out the bridesmaids dresses, oh no you do it it’s your day. I hate these dresses why did you choose them. They are going to be hot! I don’t like the shoes you picked I’m just going to get my own.
My bachlorette party came and went, she came and we all had a really good time. She had even offered to be the designated driver for the night even though we had already decided on someone to do it so we wouldn’t have to ask her to but she said she would do it.
Well we are now eleven days till our wedding and she decides to go on to facebook and publicly bash me and my parents for everyone to see family members included. Crying about how we don’t care about her and all’s I do is get drunk and cause drama. Well let me assure you there has been no drama from me I have just been trying to make it more pleasant for everyone by kissing my sisters ass. We even had plans to hang out on Saturday and Sunday and she totally ditched me with no explanation and Monday when I looked on facebook I read all these things she is saying about me. I didn’t even do anything!
I have never been very close to my sister, I have tried to have a normal relationship with her for several years but when it finally feels like we can she freaks out and does this. It wasn’t the first time it happens every 6 weeks or so.
I just don’t know what to do anymore. The only thing I have been able to do for 2 days is cry. I really don’t want her at my wedding and I’m about ready to never talk to her aging. Does anyone have any advice?