(Closed) Sister/MOH drama

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That’s terrible! I’m really sorry she’s doing all that. It sounds like its just jealousy. Honestly thuogh with what you’ve said I would be worried that she would do something on the wedding day. It would be a bold move if you did but would you consider asking her to step down? She’s attacking not only oyu but your family so I would think they would support you, plus they might not be able to talk her into calming down. Good luck.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i would just ask her if she even wants to be in the wedding at this point, seeing as though it seems to be making her unhappy. phrase it as nicely as possible- and this way you’ve given her a graceful out, while at the same time letting it be known that her behavior is unacceptable.

Post # 5
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3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think since you are so close to the wedding just put up with it and not bring it up until afterwards. 

Post # 6
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am so sorry you are going through this with your sister. I suggest that you have a talk with her and ask her directly why she is doing these things. Let her know that she is hurting your feelings and damaging your relationship with each other. Let her know that she is more than welcome to step down, and she can still come to the wedding, if she wants.

You are handling this much better than I would. If I saw comments on facebook like that, I would have gone off on her right then and there and kicked her out of the wedding. She has no business treating you and your family like that. And I am sure that your family would totally support you and understand whatever you decide to do about this.

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