Post # 61
If she doesnt trust him and cheating was your first instinct, I would trust your instincts. Be prepared for the fallout. Ask your sister what her next steps will be if her suspicions are confirmed, she will need your support and unconditional, non-judgemental love.
Post # 62
At first I would have assumed it was nothing. I used to have a second account too for business contacts. But the maiden name thing, your sisters reaction…bummer. I feel sorry for her.
Even if it is somehow nothing-there will be some wrinkles and ruffled feathers and a bit of trust rebuilding both ways.
Personally, I’d have just brought it up the profile as much as I can see on my computer and had him sit next to me and explain it. And log in with me watching. I think it’s usually better to address things head on rather than doing something fake, too, you know…