(Closed) Size or the motion

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Does size matter?
    No : (10 votes)
    11 %
    No, but not too small : (24 votes)
    27 %
    No, but not too big : (8 votes)
    9 %
    Yes : (42 votes)
    48 %
    Indifferent : (4 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    1607 posts
    Bumble bee

    katiemandy88 :  I think it’s better that the guy actually knows how to use it than the size! Plenty of guys who are well gifted but don’t know how to use it, makes for a rubbish experience! Plus, too big can make it painful and not nice anyway.

    Post # 3
    Member
    2122 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    I’ve had sex with a variety of men with hugely varying sizes of penis, and there is absolutely no correlation. You won’t automatically be sexually compatible with someone with a large penis, or incompatible with someone on the smaller side. It doesn’t work like that. One of my worst sexual experiences was with a guy with a very large penis. But I’ve had great sex with guys on the smaller side.

    I really wish women wouldn’t objectify men this way. It’s fucking shit when men judge our breasts, labia and vaginas when really they’re all fucking awesome. Cock is cock. It’s all good.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2317 posts
    Buzzing bee

    If we were all being honest I think we would each have different preferences.  For example if we leveled the playing field and every guys skill was equal, then which size would you prefer??? I think most women would go for something in the middle or average!

    Post # 6
    Member
    8505 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    katiemandy88 :  either I’m lucky or I’ve just had guys that knew how to use what they had but I’ve never thought “that sex was bad because he is too small”. Too big has definitely been a problem for me though….ouchhhhhh! 

    Post # 7
    Member
    337 posts
    Helper bee

    There needs to be a nice balance between size and motion. Honestly, sex would be awful without both. If a guy is huge, he needs to know how to work it so that it isn’t quite so painful. If the guy is small, he needs to know how to maneuver it so that he can hit all the fun spots. 

    On the same note, the woman also plays a significant part in whether or not the sex will be good. A car with a stick shift isn’t going to get anywhere unless it has a driver that knows how to drive it. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    I’ve had a mix of sizes and experiences. I’ve had big guys who didn’t know what they were doing, small guys who didn’t know what they were doing, and average guys who didn’t know what they were doing! On the other hand, though, I’ve had guys of all sizes who were great. I think that some men are great at sex and being passionate and some just aren’t, regardless of size. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    672 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

    Gonna be honest: I am not turned on by the look of a small penis and I am not ashamed to say it. Sure, I’ve dated guys on the “smaller side” and still had great sex but their sizes were still within the range of normality; I don’t know any honest woman who would claim that micropenises are just as good as average or slightly larger than average penises. Just as I am not turned on by large flabby bellies on men, I’m simply not into little guys…average and slightly larger than average is my preference, both aesthetically and for physical pleasure. Therefore, all else being equal as far as skill, I’ll always choose bigger over smaller. But not farcical, donkey dick huge, lol. That’s a problem too!

    Post # 10
    Member
    6503 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2016

    My vote is that it’s a combination of size and motion (and willingness to learn a partner’s likes and dislikes and responsiveness to the ebb and flow of desires).

    I’ve never been with a guy who was really small so I don’t know what my reaction would be to finding out a partner had a really small penis. I know if he was good with his hands and his tongue, that would go a long way toward balancing things and keeping the pleasure high.

    I think, more than anything, a guy who is confident (not cocky) and who isn’t threatened by exploring different things is the best all around.

    Post # 11
    Member
    645 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2017

    katiemandy88 :  I am completely indifferent. It doesn’t matter how big the size is as long as your man puts the time and effort into making sure you climax. It actually makes me a little crazy when my friends admit to faking orgasms to boost their SOs confidence.

    Post # 13
    Member
    68 posts
    Worker bee

    I personally prefer both – I like big dicks and I like men who know how to use them. Sorry not sorry.

    Post # 15
    Member
    68 posts
    Worker bee

    katiemandy88 :  I would never humiliate or degrade someone for something they can’t control, but I would probably exit the situation tactfully if presented with a small penis. Since I can change my mind for any reason at any time, I’m not going to be an asshole and tell him it’s because his dick is too small. All I have to say is that I don’t want to have sex.

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