(Closed) Sleepgasms TMI.

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yeah, that happens to me sometimes. I think it’s pretty normal.

Why don’t you masterbate any more?

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

Never had one but I think Darling Husband has something similar to sexsomnia.  It’s never actually progressed to sex, but there have been times where he’s gotten very handsy when he’s been asleep; if I wanted to have sex with him I probably could (whether he would wake up or not, I’m not sure!).  I’ve gotten slightly turned on in my sleep, but that’s it.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have them also sometimes but not terribly often and they are never painful although generally intense. I generally have a high drive but haven’t really paid attention to the circumstances of when I have these sort of dreams. No advice, just letting you know you are not alone.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Kind of random but I did a lot of study on the subject of “mental” orgasims, where you need no phsyical contact to bring about pleasure. Does this fit your description? or do you actually manually stimulate yourself while you sleep?

I think we can all attest to some arousing dreams ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

This happens to me all the time! Never painful, though

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Pinksapphire:  This happened to me when I was pregnant, only during pregnancy, though. I attributed it to levels of hormones. TBH, I didn’t mind it lol.

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I have them in my sleep 1-2 times a month but they never hurt.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I forgot to mention that for me it doesn’t hurt. I think you need to find a way for some “you time!”

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have them, but never painful.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

The thing that would concern me is the “painful” part. I have dreams from which I wake up very turned on, but I’ve never actually had an orgasm so I don’t have much advice. You say that you think these orgasms are a result of not getting as much stimulation as you want/need? 

I will say that between Darling Husband and I, I have a waaay higher sex drive. I pleasure myself at least once a day, sometimes 2 or 3 times, and still want sex whenever Darling Husband does. I prefer to do it in the morning after he leaves for work or in the evening before he gets home, but some days that just doesn’t work and I have to do it, privacy be damned. He just kinda laughs and rolls his eyes when he catches me, or when I wink at him and go into the bedroom for 15 minutes ๐Ÿ˜›  Sometimes if he’s not horny and I am, he’ll just kiss me or suck on my nipples while I get myself off (tmi?) Would he do that for you so you don’t feel weird masturbating around him?

I guess my advice would be: If you dont want the sleepgasms to continue, and you feel that masturbating helps, I say just do it! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 15
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Busy bee

This happens to me fairly often, I’d say at least once a month.  And I know what you mean by the almost painful thing…. they are so intense it’s almost painful, but not necessarily in a bad way.  Weird….. but kinda fun too ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ve had these. Maybe once every few months. I always get really embarrassed because I don’t know if i;m making noises or moving!

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