(Closed) Sleeping together before marriage

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Are you sleeping together before getting married?

    We are both virgins.

    One of us is a virgin, one of us is not.

    Neither of us are virgins but we will not sleep together until we're married.

    We are already sleeping together.

  • Post # 47
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    He has had 1 partner before me and I have had 2.

    I like the IDEA of waiting for marriage but it doesn’t seem practically doable. We live 2 hours away from each other and want to sleep over and spend weekends together and it is hard enough not seeing him during the week.

    Post # 48
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    My first time was with a friend, but was awkward and somewhat painful. I went on to have other relationships, meaningful ones that I don’t regret. My husband was engaged prior to meeting me and has a child with her. So we definitely both had history, but it was never a problem. If a couple chooses to wait that’s obviously the best decision for them, no two couples are alike.

    Post # 49
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We definitely did not wait. We were so tired on our wedding night, I can’t even imagine having the first time experience in that state!

    I respect your decision though 🙂

    Post # 50
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    193 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Both virgins, waiting until May 18th to get it on 😉

    Post # 51
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    for those of you who are virgins, are you extremely nervous about the wedding night and the first time, and anxiety around that stuff since it is both your first time?

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