Slept with my ex, feeling stupid

posted 2 months ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

We all make mistakes. Dont beat yourself up

The only thing to do is pull yourself back up and don’t make a repeat mistake 

Post # 3
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Busy bee

roses89 :  you aren’t dumb you are human it’s okay. Just try to stay away from him and learn from the experiences. It’s going to be okay. It’s the summer lots of fun things to do to take your mind off of it.

Post # 4
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Busy bee

roses89 :  ps get back on Tinder. I met my future husband on there, girl!!

Post # 5
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Honey bee

roses89 :  I’ve slept with every ex I have at least once post-breakup. It happens. Don’t beat yourself up over it!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

block him on your phone and all social media

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

PS Hope it was a yummy meal!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2017 - Outside in Paris

Relapsing is pretty common. If you aren’t getting back together it’s best to go back to the no contact. 

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Yep, you are human, and if you still have feelings for him then it’s difficult not to go back there. 

Just don’t get your hopes up that it’s going to lead to reconciliation. Get back out there, have fun and don’t contact him again. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

You’re not stupid, don’t think like that! 

Don’t contact him and go out and meet other people.  If he wants to spend time with you he needs to work for it.  

If he asks to hang out again,  I would reply kindly,  “last time was fun,  but that’s not what I’m looking for.  You ended our relationship,  and that’s fine.  I’m in the process of moving on,   so if a hookup is what you’re looking for, then I’m sorry, Im not going to be that girl for you.” 

Don’t ever tell him you felt stupid. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

roses89 :  Sweetie, DO NOT beat yourself up about this, it happens all the time. Just learn from it and move on.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

we’ve all been there, don’t feel dumb! the best thing to do is to take it for what it was, and don’t let your mind wander into the what-if territory. if you’re tough enough to do it, block his number and go no contact. you will heal faster.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

Totally slept with my ex shortly after breaking up. Hate sex can be hot. Don’t beat yourself up, take it as a backslide and start again. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

roses89 :  I think it’s kind of a normal thing for ex’s to hook up again a month of so after a break up.  It’s usally a mistake, and sometimes is apart of the closure process.  Don’t beat yourself up too much bee, we’ve all been there.  I just wouldn’t do it again.

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