Slept with my ex, feeling stupid

posted 2 months ago in Emotional
Post # 16
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368 posts
Helper bee

Make a game plan so this does not happen again. If you know in your heart that it’s really over, block him and don’t look back.

Post # 17
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113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

summerrain123 :  me too!!! But we knew it was meant to be regardless of how we met! 

Post # 18
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1722 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

roses89 :  it happens. i’ve slept with an ex too. you’ll bounce back girl – just stop meeting up with him.

Post # 19
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5741 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park

Stop answering his texts. Block his number.

If you block his number then you’re in control. You don’t have to stare at your phone waiting to see if he texts because you’ve made the decision this is over.

Post # 20
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715 posts
Busy bee

Don’t feel dumb! I’ve honestly done this at some stage with nearly all of my exes. I’m not PROUD of it of course, but it almost seemed like it was part of the process of breaking up for me. I would get to a place where I was starting to feel better and then would ‘relapse’ and hang out with them a few times. It would make things worse for a little bit,but didn’t take as long to bounce back from. Plus it would also help remind me why it ended in the first place and make me see that what happened was meant to happen (the breakup I mean).

I don’t think that it’s the right thing to do, but we’re human, and not everything in life is about being strong and having the upper hand. Sometimes it’s about learning about yourself and how you deal with relationships. We’re humans. We make mistakes. just pick yourself back up, learn from those mistakes and give yourself space to move on. 

Post # 21
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2383 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I know it hurts, but you CAN do this. Let it out then pick yourself back up again. THe right guy is out there for you

Post # 22
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44 posts
Newbee

Been there done that. Don’t beat yourself up about it. The next time he texts just ignore. You’re not back to square one, you just had a momentary lapse of judgement. You can do this! 🙂

Post # 23
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4993 posts
Honey bee

roses89 :  

Yep,  been there done that  ( haven’t most of us! ) Slept with my ex husband  after I’d left him , even though I knew how  stupid it was . But there you go , it was good sex.  Just don’t do it again .  .

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