(Closed) Slightly tempted to look for ring.

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
142 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t do it Smile

Even if you don’t like it anymore it’s too late now! It’s funny I’m sitting in the bedroom and SO just went out to grab us some food, I wasn’t thinking about the ring AT ALL until I read ths thread… now I’m tempted to look for the ring. Lol I know he has it hidden here somewhere, but I know he would be disappointed if I did that so I would never. 

Hang in there, you will have it soon enough.


Post # 5
5696 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I was in a similar situation and I’ll be honest…I totally snooped, found the ring, and tried it on.  We chose the ring together and he waited MONTHS to propose.    After we got engaged I admitted that I’d snooped.  It helped tide me over and let me get to confirm that i actually loved the ring (we ordered moissy online and I’d never actually seen one in person or tried on the ring!).

I don’t think it was a reallh big deal, but I also knew that my DH wouldn’t be upset about it if he found out.

Post # 6
6208 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Don’t do it! I ruin every surprise for myself and it sucks!

Post # 7
1645 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

@MysticPrincess1:  Don’t look!!!  The surprise will be ruined if you find it, because then you’ll look at the ring itself.  Refrain!!  😀

Post # 8
3221 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’ll join the chorus of bees telling you to not look. Don’t obsess over it — just let it be. I talked about my ring so much that my FI gave in and let me wear it for months before he proposed, though I was only allowed to wear it at home. My proposal was still special, but there wasn’t a lot of joy about the ring. I was happy to be engaged, but the ring didn’t have much novelty to me anymore.

Post # 9
49 posts

@MeiFrancis:  +1 

I ruin my own surprises all the time. im awful… DON’T DO IT… Surprises are fun, and you’ve seen the ring once. <3 im sure you’ll love it more when it has all the sentimental meaning behind it. <3

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