(Closed) Slowly going crazy!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I can’t relate.  From the way you’ve written your post it seems like you wanted a proposal since day 1.  Well wishing for a proposal everyday of a two year relationship (so 700ish times?) would get old fast. 

I’m also not in my 30’s.  Maybe he saved for a year so we could get you a really nice ring or maybe he had other commitments (like saving a whole bunch of cash for a rainy day for your future together, when I have a job I am guilty of this and its paid off more than a few times).

I was with Fiance for four years before he proposed.  He went from not wanting to ever get married again to going down on one knee after many many dispoiniting coversations (and these weren’t all marriage based).  I say if you take a cue from your guy you can go with the flow and enjoy it but a timeline would be good since as you said you want to have kids.  And you don’t want to be “waited out” of your reproductive years.  Are you sure you guys are on the same page.  It seems he’s not as concerned for your ticking clock as you are.  Only you can decide wether you are compatible enough.  He’s always going to be a go with the flow guy and your will always be you (a planner it sounds like, I am the same way.)

My guy and I agreed we would get married about 3 days before the ring showed up and I was really surprised and it was still romantic.  So it would feel romantic when your proposal happens I think.  But since your on a deadline I would maybe start talking to him seriously about this but if you know everythings fine then sit back relax and let it happen.  Find something else to do in the meantime like work out or whatever hobbies you like.

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