(Closed) Small Vent – Sick of waiting

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Shonzilla:  That’s crazy… I’d tell him to stop playing games. Have you all discussed a timeline at all? I know you’ve been seriously talking for the past 2 yrs. But do you have “we’ll be engaged by may of 2014” or whatnot?

How old are you btw? just curious.

I’m 22 (today!), FI and I had been together for 5 yrs when he proposed bc we started dating when we were 16. 

Post # 4
281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Shonzilla:  If only our fella’s understood what they put us through!! If the ring is at fedex, I’d bet money that he is already planning on how to give it to you. It won’t be a year away, I can assure you that! They always want to make sure we are surprised and find it funny to get us worked up (for the most part!!)….

Be patient!! I had reached my wits end and had to convince myself to just give up thinking about it….I had several nights where I was a real brat to him the week before he proposed! It happened when I least expected it, because I stopped hoping for it. It was super awesome and your turn is closer then you think Smile Now, stop looking at wedding boards and go watch a stupid movie that is not wedding related!! Home Alone is always a good one! Wink

Post # 5
982 posts
Busy bee

I think maybe because your SO is away at the moment you’re feeling even more vulnerable but I’m sure it will happen soon. 🙂 especially if it has already been ordered! Not long now. Try and take your mind off it if you can. 

Post # 8
12257 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

This Christmas or next or NEVER?!

Dude is SERIOUSLY messing with your head, and that is NOT okay.

I think you guys need to have a frank discussion. Does he really want to get married? Is that in his plan? Or is that something you want, that he’s pretending to go along with?

Post # 11
12257 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Shonzilla:  Oh! I thought you meant he was changing his mind DURING serious conversation!

My DH referred to engagement is “that thing that might happen some day in the distant future” TWO HOURS before he proposed. Men!

Post # 12
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@BrandNewBride:  Wow!!!!  That’s amazing…you just never now how long you will be waiting…maybe not long at all haha!

@Shonzilla:  Hang in there.  It sounds like it’s close…he probably wants it to be a surprise so he’s trying to throw you off!! 

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