(Closed) Small wedding, brother and a date

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We have having a similarly small wedding and did not give the two singles a +1.  I can’t imagine a date would feel anything other than awkward at such an intimate family affair.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@LeonardLady:  I would wait and the problem may solve itself. By the time you get engaged and finish planning a wedding, his situation may change. I’m not one for wasting energy worrying about things you can’t do anything about.

If he is still single and not in a committed relationship, and given that you are having immediate family only, I would probably not give him a plus one. What purpose would it serve? Would you be having dancing at a small family only wedding?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

I would not worry about anything til you’re engaged. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

its just one person.. i woulnt make a big deal.. plus you dont know if it will b the flavor of the month by then, or if he has  f ound “the one” 🙂

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@LeonardLady:  I would say no to plus 1 I agree to not wanting some random chick in my wedding pics

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