(Closed) Small Wedding vs. "Big" Wedding Disagreements

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Fi wanted to just go to the courthouse.  He is shy (at first) and didn’t feel comfortable being the center of attention.  But he knew how important a wedding was to me and my family so he went with my way.  We also have a 150 guest list… but once fi was on board, he was on board.  And he is pretty happy we’re having a wedding:  he even added to the guest list.  

I suggest sitting down and talking to your fi.  It is too late now to back out but maybe find ways for him to deal with his anxiety.  My fi is not planning much, with the exception of coming to major vendor meetings and a few opinions here and there.  Since I wanted this and I love parties, I am happy with my decision.  If your fi is fine with this, don’t involve him anymore.  Just ask him to show up… maybe that will calm him down some.

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