- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
Okay, so my husband and I are really pretty open with each other about stuff. im not the type of wife to say he can’t go out with his single guy friends and have a guys night every once in awhile. It’s cool, ago to a bar and be a 26 year old guy with your dudes. Just come home that night.
So the other day I was visiting him at his workplace and I was waiting for him to finish a call and I jump on his computer to get on Facebook. I open the screen and his Facebook is up with a conversation with some chick I’ve never heard of or knew. He keeps in contact with friend towns from college and highschool and they are mostly Female. That’s fine, no big deal because undo the same.
However, I immediately got a sick feelin about this girl, lets call her Amanda. I amazed my husband about it and he just said its his frind blah blah blah and I didn’t want to get into it web hes at work. But it he more I keep thinking about it, the sicker I get. It was a normal conversation but I sort of felt undertones to it, of that makes sense.
So we are in bed last night and I Can’t sleep. So I get on my phone and get in my Facebook to stalk this chick. I really don’t want flamed for this because in all honesty, we all do it! Anyways, I notice that she didn’t go to college with him, didn’t go to his high school and they only have one friend in common. This friend is the daughter of his moms friend and both of these women are the worst and they hate my guts because I’m American, they are MaCeding an as is my husband. So this sick feeling triples. How does he know her? And I notice that he has likes every single one of her comments and pictures which realllllly rubs me the wrong way because according to him, “he is never on facebook, he really should just delete it” bullshit.
So this is at like, 3am and he passed out. So I log out of my facebook and log into his. His password is the same for everything and he has my passwords so I don’t consider this snooping at all. So then I start going through his messages with her and I still just get this super sick feeling.
And so I try to ignore it and I’m just poking around and I HATE his profile pic of us, my head looks huge and I just can’t stand it. So I Chnage his pic. He has done this to me before if he hates a pic of him so it was whatever.So I go back to sleep and call it a night.
I get up this morning and he had to work and I just feel sick all over again and I just KNEW that he changed his password on Facebook. I try to log in and he totally changed it. Why would he change his passworfood he’s not trying to hide something? I’m all shaky and sick feeling for and I just want to cry and find out what is going on. Like for real. I would chalk this up to nothing except for this bad feeling I have about it all….
So I am asking you for advice. What should I do?
ETA: I do have a tendency to be very dramatic and freak myself out. So this could just be my imagination running with me