Post # 1
ok im so sick of the uncalled for snottyness lately. im nice to everyone on here i always have a positive word to say and if i dont i leave the tread and i move on . but lately there are some that feel the need to get snotty with you for no good reason at all. be happy!!! its the holidays
Post # 4
- Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club
I’m sorry you feel that way. Holidays tend to leave people more stressed than normal (weird, right?), so that might be why Bees are “snappy” lately.
Post # 5
@HisNightOwl2014: I’m sorry! I think with everything that has been going on lately in the news, and the impending holidays, many people are put on edge. Try to stay happy yourself and concentrate on all the nice sweet, helpful bees 🙂
Post # 6
I’m snotty because the stinking remnants of sinus infection still lingers. But, I have tissues right next to me!
Post # 7
@missmorganista: they really are and i really hate when someone is rude to me for no real reason. i try to watch my mouth on here and be positive. but some Bees have really pushed me lol
Post # 9
@StuporDuck: cute you put a smile on my face all you girls have
Post # 10
I am sorry you have experienced the pain of others. I know it is cruel and shouldnt be done but the flip side to that is most may be under pressure because they are waiting bees, husband or FI’s arent home, or just wanted to rant because they are so unhappy.
Let me be the first to say “I AM SORRY”….I know I havent done anything but sometime when this word is used it makes the person feel better.
I hope that is what I have done for you.
Post # 11
Just take a deep breath and think of one of these (we need more of one of them!)
Post # 12
If people ask for opinions, they have to expect to get answers they don’t want. But there’s a difference between a different opinion and a snarky one. Sometimes that line gets blurred… But it is frustrating when a Bee posts “Do you like _____” and then goes off the handle when someone says no.
Post # 13
@abbie017: I agree that there’s a difference between providing opinions (particularly when they’ve been asked for) and being snarky. I guess the main thing to remember is that, online, it’s so easy to misinterpret what someone is saying. For the most part, no one wants to offend anyone else (trolls excepted), and I think that’s the main thing we need to keep in mind when we come across a post that hits a nerve with us.
Post # 14
I come on here less frequently because I’m fed up of people getting shirty over the smallest things.
im glad I’m not the only one.
Post # 15
I’m sorry – but I won’t give excuses about why they’re being snotty. Some people are just so because that’s how they are…and they are proud of it. It’s stupid but there’s nothing we can do .
Post # 16
I think we can all agree that Weddingbee goes through cycles of happy times, as well as times when we’re stressed out and we tend to take it out on each other. It’s the same way in our day to day lives. However, threads like these never tend to go well, and drawing attention to the drama typically doesn’t help to calm the waters.
If you happen to see drama or violations of the TOS, please flag it for the moderators to review, and click away to another thread rather than getting wrapped up in it yourself. The drama has nowhere to go if you don’t feed it!
Or better yet, start a positive thread to help change the mood on the boards! We all love Weddingbee because of what a supportive and encouraging place this is, so let’s work together to balance out the negative when we see it.
With that being said, I’m going to close this thread so we can focus on the fabulous upcoming weddings and enjoy some awesome recaps. 🙂 Happy Holidays to everyone!