(Closed) Snubbed by my cousin?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

That doesn’t seem right. Have you asked your dad about it? Maybe they invited close family by word of mouth and your dad forgot to tell you or assumed you already knew?

Post # 4
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1566 posts
Bumble bee

Sounds like it might have been a mistake, but maybe they are upset at you for some reason? I would definitely check with your dad. If he’s close to his sister, you should be able to figure out what’s going on! 

Post # 7
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296 posts
Helper bee

Are you sure you didn’t get included in your parents’ invitation? (like if their invitation said “and family,” or something of the kind?) One of my second cousins got married a year and a half ago, and even though most of the second cousins in our family are in the same age range (late teens/early twenties – definitely legal adults), my siblings and I were included on our parents’ invitation, and from what I gathered, it was the same for the other cousins, too. 

Maybe because you’re family, they just “lumped you in” with your parents, figuring that your folks would get the message to you somehow. However, if your parents have not said anything to you, or have not been invited, then I’d start to worry. 

Post # 9
Member
1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Maybe it got lost in the mail then? It happens. Get your sister to ask your cousin what’s up.

Post # 10
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18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Maybe your dad was verbally invited because they wanted to save on invites?  Seems sort of weird though since I’m assuming there weren’t a lot of invites sent out for a small wedding like that.

Post # 11
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296 posts
Helper bee

@MissHoneyBun: Ohhh, I see… hmm… I think the best way to approach this would be to get either your dad (since he is close with his sister) or your sister (since she is supposed to be involved) to clear this up and just ask somebody about who is and isn’t invited, and if you all should be expecting an invitation in the mail.

It’s maybe a bit pushy, but with only a month left before the big day, this needs to be sorted out sooner rather than later. Sorry I’m not more help. Frown 

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