Snubbed from wedding photo

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 16
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7372 posts
Busy Beekeeper

mumof2 :  I’ve looked at it from all angle I can think of, do you have any other perspectives?

Yeah your HUSBANDS. You don’t have a SIL issue you have a HUSBAND issue. 

Post # 17
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1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I adore and am super close to my family, but you’d better believe if they ever treated my husband the way your in laws treated you, they would hear about it immediately! What does your husband have to say about this?  

Post # 18
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1277 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Not just you, but I’m a bit surprised the baby was left out of the photos too. Isn’t that their biological nephew/niece? Surprising all around since you guys are married. Sorry that happened to you.

Post # 19
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6999 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d be more pissed at my Darling Husband than the Brother-In-Law….where was your Darling Husband during all this? Was it a shitty thing to do? Absolutely but you better believe if I was excluded from family photos my Darling Husband would have walked right out. Likewise I would have done the same if someone in my family wanted to exclude him.

Post # 20
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1506 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Same question as everyone else – where is your husband in all of this? None of this is acceptable :/

Post # 21
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1493 posts
Bumble bee

jpbee :  good advice. 

 

Bee, you have got to talk to them. Have your husband present and get to the bottom of this. Find out why. There has got to be a reason. Families should be able to be open and honest with each other. 

Post # 22
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209 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

I would demand my husband ask his brother why I was excluded. Heck, he might already know the answer. Then, depending on the reason, I would decide what to do. 

Post # 23
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2008

Very first thought that came to my mind….where was the husband in all of this? Your husband wasn’t mentioned once in your story. Seems so odd to me. This would NEVER fly with my husband. He wouldn’t allow it to happen, period. Furthermore, no one would even ATTEMPT any bs like this because they’d already know they couldn’t get away with it. And for arguments sake if it did happen, the FIRST thing I’D do is talk to my husband and if he did nothing and supplied no answer, he and I would have a big problem. This would absolutely not be ok. Like a previous poster said…you have a HUSBAND problem. 

Talk to your husband. 

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