(Closed) SO ANGRY!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

unreal.  Take it back to your original date.  If it’s that big of a deal to Future Brother-In-Law he can skip the wedding.

Unless he’s 8 and upset because his Chuck E Cheese party is ruined, he needs to man up.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I am no help, but I cannot believe someone would be so ridiculous about someone getting married on their birthday.  Tomorrow is my birthday.  It is also my husband’s fundraising benefit for his school, so I won’t be able to “celebrate.”  And my friend’s wedding is Saturday.  I would never even think of being upset about any of this.  It’s just a birthday and we’re all adults.

Post # 5
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547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

WOW is it his sweet sixteen MTV over the top party or something you are taking away from?  Seriously! It his birthday and a wedding is just the thing to get family all together to see ON your birthday. Pretty sure he would get some attention and happy birthday wishes. WOW what a drama queen, I would laugh and not change a thing. He can get over himself. LOL Gee I am mean today! LOL 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That’s insane!!!!! On our wedding day we’re also celebrating 2 birthdays!!! My stepson and my fiancée’s godson!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Seriously, can I smack your Future Brother-In-Law for you?  Unbelievable. 

Just curious, are you the one who’s Future Brother-In-Law is turning 22 and throwing this big fit?  It’s not even a super cool or special bday?!?

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@GroovyHippieChick:  This,

If memory serves me right, birthdays happen every single year, on the same date even!  He needs to get over himself.  How many years do we end up celebrating with family and friends on a different day of the week than our actual birthday anyway?  He sounds like an immature drama queen. 

Side note, I just attended a wedding where the MOH’s mother was in attendance and it was also her birthday.  The bride mentioned it in her toasts and we all raised a glass to her.  It was very sweet.  And she was in tears and happy to be at the wedding.  That’s class.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Adams_bee:  Your FBIL need to grow a pair and STFU. Have your wedding whenever you damn well please. If he throws a fit over being at a wedding on his precious birthday, he’ll look like a fool…not you.

Post # 10
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358 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

When you guys were origianally planning, did you not know that it is his birthday? I agree, its not a big deal! my fiance is a pastor… and is marrying someone the day after my bday, meaning rehearsal on day of… i dont even know these people but WHATEVER free food and party for me. lol

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You never should have changed your date. I would say go back to the original date and if Future Brother-In-Law has a problem with it, ask him how old he is?!

Maybe a 4 year old would be excused for being upset over some other plans on his birthday but if he’s a grown man he needs to suck it up. Average person gets around 70-80 birthdays in their lifetime, you will have one wedding.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

You cannot SERIOUSLY still be thinking he’s just upset about his birthday?

Anyway, can you arrange another date? I know it’s frustrating but can something else be worked out?

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wow….I think someone needs to get over himself!!  Seriously, FBIL is throwing a fit because the wedding was on his birthday????  Does he also refuse to go to work on his own birthday?  Wipe his own rear on his birthday?  Get real, dude.  He’s being completely unfair to you and your fiance.  Yuck!  I’d change it back to your original date without a second thought.  He’s just making himself look bad.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What?! How old is you FBIL? Sounds like kindergarten behavior…….

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