(Closed) So annoyed need to vent!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

at least everyone will see your wedding stuff first so they’ll know who the copycats are… 🙂

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

At least your wedding is first, so everyone will know where she got her ideas.

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Your is first, so it’s going to be pretty apparent she copied you if thats what she’s doing.  Either way, I wouldnt care of someone used my location, had my colors, hell even bought my same freaking dress for their wedding, mine will be special to me no matter what anyone else does.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

I agree with the PPs. Your wedding is first, so it’s not you who is going to look foolish.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

they are just making themselves look bad. I wouldnt do anything, stay the more mature one.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

No one notices colors and all that nonsense anyway. Your invitation will probably get thrown in the trash after the wedding is over with anyway. Don’t worry about that. People will remember the environment and how much fun they had. They will probably remember the good dinner they got to eat, and how the ceremony made them cry. But your color? No way.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Like everyone else said here, your wedding is first.  I don’t think it is that big of a deal anyway. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

While it’s a little rude for the other couple to use the same color or venue as you, it’s not like you’ve got a monopoly on it, so I think you just need to let it go. You don’t own a color, nor did they try to steal your date at your venue. People pick colors and venues based on what they like, and often they like it because they’re inspired by something else.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

While the colors may be the same, and even the venue, their decor and everything else may be different.  You could be ‘rustic’ while they are ‘vintage’ or ‘modern’… not a single guest will notice, even if they attend both anyway.  Everyone is going to be focusing on the bride and groom of the event at hand, and they’ll be busy eating, mingling, dancing, drinking, etc.  If you ask the guests a week after the second wedding if they remember the decor of either event, I doubt most could recall much.  

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Like PP’s have said, at least your wedding is first 🙂 And I’m sure that with two separate couples, the two weddings will have completely different aspects.. aside from colors.. unless you all have the exact same taste lol. Just try & stay focused on what its all about: marrying the love of your life, & don’t let all the other stuff get you down 🙂 Congratulations BTW!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Don’t sweat it, everyone is going to know they copied you if they notice at a all. Truthfully people don’t notice wedding colors. Seriously can you name anyone else’s colors. Only the bride sees these things. It’s not worth upsetting yourself over. Just be sure not to share anymore details!

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