(Closed) So.. Apparently I'm fat.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

*hugs* i am sorry for the hurtful comments, i understand how you feel. i am currently obese due to antidepressant weight gain, my grandmother called me fat last week

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

just remember your husband thinks you are as beautiful today as the day you got married 🙂

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

What a b*tch!  Is this girl married?  Is she jealous or just enjoys being a pest?  It’s still rude even if she didn’t mean it to be and it looks like she kept talking even after that.  And all those “dig” comments, like what’s it matter if your healthy your married.  Um so?  Married = I can forget about my health now?

I would just ignore them all.  Yea so what if you’ve gained weight it happens your getting back on track, screw her.  I’ve gained weight and taken it off twice and never had anyone say anything so rude. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Hugs!

That was totally unnecessary! She might not have meant it to be rude or mean but people shouldn’t say that! Just ignore those comments and focus on yourself, you don’t need that kind of energy surrounding you, so I would just brush them off and be happy! Don’t let anyone bring you down, we are all beautiful! 🙂

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

(( HUGS ))

Definitely sounds like this chick has issues / is a mean girl.

In the longrun Karma will catch up to her (and Karma is a b!tch)

Forget her… people like this are a waste of time… enjoy your life, your marriage, your husband.

Oh ya and for the record… in the first year of marriage they say many Newlyweds gain weight… partly because of the extravagance of the Honeymoon… and partly because of the “comfort” of being a couple together.  It does tend to effect women more than men…

http://www.examiner.com/article/post-wedding-weight-gain-is-common-for-newlyweds

So there is an explanation… just means you are INCREDIBLY HAPPY !!

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

i can’t see any difference at all!

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

TO – dannielle89:  Honestly, you look GORGEOUS !!

As I said this chick has problems… that are WEIGHING her down in life.  Forget her.

 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You look great, that girl was just being a b*tch!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Pssshhh… girl dont listen to that bitch. shes just jealous!! and seriously you look great!! dont listen to her.. bitches be crazy..

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

I got the same thing when I posted the first pic of me and my FH from two years ago.  Someone I work with responded about how different I look now (now that I am 15 pounds heavier.)  I use it to encourage myself at the gym but it was still upsetting.

Post # 14
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341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Uhm that girl sounds like an idiot.  Honestly I can not tell the difference in weight between those two photos.  So any “weight gain” you have had really is not noticeable.  Do not let her make you feel bad! You look great!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

you are beautiful! dont let this girls comments getto you.. you should excersise and be healthy for you, not anyone else. If you feel good now then thats wonderful, you have no reason not too!

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think you look great both wedding day and casual…..girls will be girls, we always put our foot in our mouths and a lot of times we are jealous for no reason!

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