(Closed) So Bees, Anal Sex…Yay or Nay?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Is anal sex part of your sex life?

    Not now, not ever!

    1-3 times a year.

    4-6 times a year.

    Every month or so...

    Every couple weeks...

    It's a regular part.

    Not now, but maybe in the future.

    No, I think anal sex is wrong.

    It used to be but not anymore.

  • Post # 197
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    no, a thousand times no! fortunately BF agrees

    Post # 199
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I’ve read in a magazine that this is secretly one of the top dreams of pleasure for a man. So to me thats a yay.

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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Did it when I was young but never again.  Fiance agrees its a no go zone.

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    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Absolutely best thread ever!!!! much funnier than DIY centrepieces!!!

    Post # 204
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

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    @kaitlyn417:  SO goes in with fingers and lube first, to try and get you “adjusted” and “open you up” a little. Then, he can go for the rabbit hole if he’s lubed up. He needs to go SLOWLY. Let you get adjusted, then continue.

    Honestly, start with toys. Anal beads are great. They are smaller and you start getting more accustomed to feelings down there that aren’t just “exiting”.

    Used to do it with ex ALL the time. He was majorly an ass-man.

    Fiance tried it and it’s just not his thing, so we stopped. I miss it sometimes, but my life goes on.

    Post # 205
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Most of the times we’ve tried, it hurts far too much to actually get anywhere. The only time we succeedede, we were both completely wasted. I could stop laughing though while it was going on. It just felt so weird! He’d ask, How does it feel? Do you like it? Would you wanna try it again? I’m just like, it doesn’t feel bad, it just feels weird, and not in a pleasurable way, just a “What an odd sensation” way. Since then, whenever he brings it up, I’m just like, you gotta get me drunk first.

    Post # 206
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    It’s not our thing!

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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @bunnyharriet:  We’ve tried a few times. He used to accidentally slip in there sometimes so I told him to be more careful. It doesn’t hurt at all but I don’t care for it and the germs thing bugs me.

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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Helllz no.

    Post # 209
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    Sugar bee

    I’ve tried it twice with ex, really didn’t like it at all. It hurt me and I bled (sorry for the gross details). We were younng and unexperienced, but it was enough for me to say I didn’t wish this to become part of my sex life. My fiancé never tried it, and he told me he would be curious if ever I’d be open to the idea, but he knows it won’t happen and he’s totally fine with it. To each people their preferences … this is definitely not one of mine !

    Post # 210
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    Busy bee

    I’ve only flown solo back there, and have thus far found that while I enjoy the stimulation back there, I’m not into the whole in and out sensation, so I’ve never passed the information along, and my SO has expressed disinterest in it, so meh! One of these years when we’re looking to spice things up, I’ll start making him put toys in my butt, I suppose, 

    Post # 211
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    My husband is the only man I have had anal with. I had an ex who wouldn’t stop pressuring me for it and that turned me off immensely.

    It was a new experience but neither me nor my husband enjoy it a lot, so we don’t do anal anymore.

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    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2017

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    Post # 210
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

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    beachgirl786 :  Why is it that you are only here commenting on sexual posts, many from years back? 

     

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