Post # 47
He’s been great for the most part – giving opinions, helping when asked, but letting me make the majority of the decisions.
There has been a few times where he starts out with “whatever you’d like…” and after i’ve spent a TON of time on something he’ll be like “actually… I think we should do something else instead….” grrr
Post # 48
Completely hands off but 100% supportive. He’s serving overseas so it’s not like we had much of a choice in the matter.
Post # 49
Found the perfect way for my Fiance to be involved… I assigned him several areas of responsibility for our wedding. Limo, DJ, tuxedos, and honeymoon. And he’s done a great job of organizing those things, asking me for my input but ultimately executing on the booking of each. Things he doesn’t care about, like flowers, and decor, he’s left 100% to my soul discression. And then there are things we are completing together, like the minister and the registry.
Oh, and of course I have had no problem getting him to meetings with the caterer and baker… what groom would turn down free food? 🙂
Post # 50
Fiance was there for the cake tasting of course) but nothing else. He could care less.
Post # 51
Fiance really cares about some parts of it (the venue and the cake), but other parts he could care less about (the flowers and the music). He listens to me talk about them, though, and will tell me which he prefers if I give him a list of options :).