- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Fi works for family in the air conditioning/construction business, for the past year he has been working on job that is fairly local, 45 mins from home. The next job is close to 6 hours away. His family has been understanding about the wedding and has basically pulled everyone to the far away job except him so that he has enough work and can be down here for the wedding. We just found out yesterday that the monday after we get back from our mini-moon he is going to have to start work at the far away job.. which is like 2 weeks from now. :/
Im just so bummed out. We just moved in together 2 weeks ago, but with last minute wedding stuff we hav literally only had dinner together twice and have just been so tired. We were looking forward to after the wedding just getting to spend time together and do married people things.. he will be leaving either sunday nights or monday mornings and being gone all week to come back friday nights. (hopefully)
He was in the military for the first four years of our relationship so were no stranger to distance. I was hoping that we already paid our dues.. It just sucks. I know his family needs him, and im trying my best to focus on that becuase thats the only (kind of) positive i can think of. and it will only be temporary, we just dont know how long, 2-6 months.
Any way could use some words of encouragement..
ok pity party over 😉