(Closed) SO commenting on random women's photos. [Warning: Long]

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 121
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You got this. And you will feel such a huge weight off your shoulders after you dump this loser. I’ve been there!

Post # 122
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Newbee

I just wanted to wish you good luck, both with the conversation and everything that will happen afterwards.

Post # 123
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

“But apart from then, he’s actually an all-around good guy.”

This makes me really sad.  Some day, you will find a real good guy, and you’ll be glad you didn’t settle for this “good guy” who manipulates you, threatens suicide to control you (no, that is not normal!), humiliates you, disrespects you, denies your feelings, and refuses to apologize.  Please don’t be one of those women who think “He’s a good guy except he hits me” or “He’s a good guy except he cheats on me”.                 

Post # 124
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Helper bee

OP, how did it go? I would love to hear how you are doing. Stay strong! 

Post # 125
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Sugar bee

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BeeWithNoName:  hope everything went OK and you said all you needed to. 

Post # 126
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Just saw this thread.. *Thinking of you.. Hope everything went OK

Post # 127
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I’m a bundle of nerves right now! Praying you are safe, OP.

Post # 128
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

I just wanted to send positive thoughts your way. I know how it feels to deal with a person who can be manipulative, even though my time with that person was extremely short, he had me second guessing every decision and gut feeling I had with every trick in the book. 

Good luck OP and stay strong. 

Post # 131
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I’m hoping this works out for your sake, but I wouldn’t live with someone who threatened their own life to get their way…I hope he gets help for that, because it’s sick and NOT normal.

Post # 133
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Pure manipulation. He knew damn well what was unacceptable before. And you’re always going to be on edge wondering when he will betray you again. Someone that uses suicide threats as a tool is too dangerous to keep in your life. Sorry, OP, but I think you were manipulated and made a huge mistake.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by  yellowtulip8.
Post # 134
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

Nope nope nope. I’m just going to say it, you’re making a huge mistake and wasting more of your time. He told you exactly what you wanted to hear and what he knew he would have to do to keep you for now.

Post # 135
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910 posts
Busy bee

I think youve been manipulated again I’m sorry OP. Things may improve slightly but all that will happen is you will make concessions for him because he’s ‘trying’. This will just drag things out even further. My advice is to leave, no more discussions. There’s no reason to go through all this. 

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