(Closed) So confused

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
Member
3089 posts
Sugar bee

Yeah, you need to CHANGE your man and get a new one.

Puh lease.

Post # 17
Member
2675 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

This sounds like he wants to break up, but he wants a door left open for him to come back if you become successful and he decides he wants to capitalize on you success. Just let him go, find someone new who truly wants to be with you, regardless of business ventures.

Post # 18
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9893 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Um…what the fuck? This guy sounds like a total asshole. I would kick him out now. He not acting like a loving, life partner. He is being manipulative and controlling. Trust me, you can do better and will be SO much better off without him.

Post # 19
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607 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

He’s a jerk and a coward who didn’t have the balls to just call it off…instead he’s coming up with lame excuses by saying he wants you to change and to do it without him. I’m sorry this happening to you but you need to cut your losses and run!

Post # 20
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478 posts
Helper bee

I would be suspicious he has already started seeing someone else.  Unless you’ve been doing something like flirting with other men, I can’t imagine what would lead him to behave this way so shortly after proposing unless there is another woman in the wings.  Especially since he is leaving to help his brother “get over his divorce”…sounds like code for: going out to bars, getting drunk, and picking up women.

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