(Closed) So devastated, my SO passed away yesterday

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am so sorry for your loss.  Do your parents know?  Any friends you can lean on?  

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am so very sorry for your loss – I can’t even imagine what you must be going through.

*hugs*

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am SO SO sorry sweetie! Big big hugs to you.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you and his family.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper

I am so sorry for your loss.  Lean on friends and family. 🙁

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I can’t imagine what you’re going through and how hard things are for you right now.  I don’t know your financial situation but if you’re not in a place emotionally/physically where you have friends or family to talk to, PLEASE consider finding a grief counselor, if only for a couple visits.  Pain like that is so enormous, it’s near impossible to deal with on your own without totally breaking down (there’s a reason we bring casseroles to grieving relatives!) so don’t put that on yourself!  Anyone who’s remotely close to you, even co-workers, would want to help if they could so try to let someone know, if you can.  Hugs!!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You can always sending me a message when you are feeling down, I’m a good listener. I also know some cheesy jokes, or a can hold your cyber hand and we can cry together. And I mean that. Hugs!

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@niatt:  Can you go spend some time with your mom or that friend?  I hate to think of you being all alone right now.  

 

More practically, did his family know that you knew him?  

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

sending to prayers to you and for his family.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’m so sorry 🙁

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. If the sadness gets too much to bear, consider trying to join a grief support group. There should also be good resources on the Internet for this.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I’m definitely praying for you and for his family, and if there’s absolutely anything you need from this community we can do–jokes, uplifting, virtual hugs, just to say things (well, type things) and have us hear and be supportive–I know we’d all like to be here for you!

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