Post # 1
I just need a little support today my SO passed away yesterday. A short backstory of us. We got together while he was separated and we were together for almost two and a half years. Their divorce was in the final stages, she had moved out from before we got together, so we decided to keep our relationship quiet to avoid any conflicts for him.
So off course no one knew about us and now this happened. He was sick and i am so glad that I was able have him for the short time. So now I have no support and have to go through this by myself.
Post # 3
I am so sorry for your loss. Do your parents know? Any friends you can lean on?
Post # 4
I am so very sorry for your loss – I can’t even imagine what you must be going through.
Post # 5
I am SO SO sorry sweetie! Big big hugs to you.
Post # 6
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you and his family.
Post # 7
I am so sorry for your loss. Lean on friends and family. 🙁
Post # 8
I can’t imagine what you’re going through and how hard things are for you right now. I don’t know your financial situation but if you’re not in a place emotionally/physically where you have friends or family to talk to, PLEASE consider finding a grief counselor, if only for a couple visits. Pain like that is so enormous, it’s near impossible to deal with on your own without totally breaking down (there’s a reason we bring casseroles to grieving relatives!) so don’t put that on yourself! Anyone who’s remotely close to you, even co-workers, would want to help if they could so try to let someone know, if you can. Hugs!!
Post # 9
I am a very private person, my mom and one of my friends know.
Post # 10
You can always sending me a message when you are feeling down, I’m a good listener. I also know some cheesy jokes, or a can hold your cyber hand and we can cry together. And I mean that. Hugs!
Post # 11
@niatt: Can you go spend some time with your mom or that friend? I hate to think of you being all alone right now.
More practically, did his family know that you knew him?
Post # 12
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Post # 13
sending to prayers to you and for his family.
Post # 15
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. If the sadness gets too much to bear, consider trying to join a grief support group. There should also be good resources on the Internet for this.
Post # 16
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I’m definitely praying for you and for his family, and if there’s absolutely anything you need from this community we can do–jokes, uplifting, virtual hugs, just to say things (well, type things) and have us hear and be supportive–I know we’d all like to be here for you!