(Closed) so disappointed :(

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If you were being good about not bringing up proposal talk it is very possible that he just thought that you had forgotten about the timeline and all the “a proposal on vacation is the best thing” talk. BOYS! They don’t realise that we are always thinking about it. 

But if he really did think that you had forgotten then he probably didn’t want to bring it up and hurt you/tell you that he had failed (this is the biggest part). It probably hurt his ego a lot to tell you that he can’t yet afford to get you want he wants to get you. Remember that this sucks for him to, he obviously wants to get engaged and his engagement has been postponed too

I know that he didn’t handle this well but please remember that this is hard on him too. Now call your boyfriend back and go hang out with him! You just came back from an amazing trip to Mexico!! He’s probably missing you and hurting from being ignored. 

Post # 18
375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@LabAngel:  I’ve been there a few times… I didn’t confront him though because I knew how hard he worked on it but still…. it blew like a cheap hooker in Detroit in the middle of winter. 

I stopped talking to him about real things and became really superficial about our relationship for awhile… then I bounced back and things just worked somehow, I’m not sure how it all happened…. 

I’m soo sorry because I remember well how your feeling and wish I could give you some advice but, stay sad for however long you really feel sad, explain your feelings and hope for the best. If its meant to be and you both work on your relationship it will happen. 

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