- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Anything goes in our house lol..
We will do anything in front of each other including using the bathroom. Who cares, we’re married right?
The only thing we do in private is poop and do AF related things. Although it seems lately even that has been going out the window. My husband has taken to not even closing the door all the way, he used to lock it when he was pooping.
#1 yes, #2, no way jose!! We aren’t that close
I can never imagine myself going to the bathroom in front of my husband. It seems uncomfortable and weird to me!
We don’t keep the door open for anything toilet related. We have 2 baths so it makes things a lot easier. It’s not that it bothers me, I just find it unnecessary. Even if one of us is in the shower though, we usually don’t interrupt. I mean it only takes 5 minutes, what’s the rush?
@MrsPanda99: We dont actively leave the door open LOL but I suppose peeing infront of eachother has happened. I was doing my make up and he could not wait lol. Same for me once when he was in the shower haha. but I think thats about as far as we take it, and those instances are far and few between.
Having only one bathroom on the main floor, if we followed the closed door policy it would take hours for us to get ready and out the door to do whatever we are getting ready to do. The door is actually closed, just not locked most of the time. If my shower consists of more than just showering (shaving etc) then I lock it.
He will do whatever in front of me, and I will go as far as #1 in front of him. Luckily it has worked out that the majority of the time neither of us walks in to the other.
He will do it all. I will do nothing.
no no no no no.
I remember one of the opening scenes in Eyes Wide Shut when Nicole is on the toilet and Tom is in the bathroom and looking at FH and saying, no, that will never happen. I do not need to be in the room while you’re doing your business. I realize that there are circumstances where someone may be ill or crippled and we will need to assist the other, that is different. I see no reason for my FH to see able bodied me using the facilities.
Usually closed door. He doesn’t care if i go in when he is peeing, but I usually avoid going in. I always close the door. My kids are the only ones that seem to barge in on me. I peed once in front of Fiance..that was last week. He was taking his time doing something and I really had to go. He turned around and said “I thought you didn’t like me in here when you are doing that?” who cares, gotta pee, you are slow!
I like to keep some things in my life private…..even with the kids…but they don’t get that the bathroom is MY time yet…and the door doesn’t lock. Grrr.
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