- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH. Ya I used all capitals. Because I am so mad right now!! So I go to the relationship boards so I can write up my little vent and what do I see? At least a thousand posts of how much everyone loves their SO and they’re so wonderful and thoughtful blah blah blah blah. That’s all good and fine. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE my SO more than anything. But today he is NOT in my good books, and seeing all the lovey dovey posts just annoyed me! I must be pmsing! Or crazy. One of the two. Ok I’ll stop rambling, and for those of you who are still reading I will describe why exactly I am so mad. My SO works away most of the time. He works 21 days, and then has 6 off. And he is mostly gone for those 21 days, and I’m at home with our two children. We recently moved away from our hometown, so I have only a few friends. And after being gone for a week he finally came home wednesday at noon. He slept from the time he got home till supper time, then ate supper and played computer games. I cleaned the kitchen, did the dishes, bathed both the children, tucked them into bed and then cleaned the living room. So today, he came home at 5. Once again, he ate supper and then promptly ran downstairs to play on his computer. And I made cookies with the kids, and then tucked them into bed before watching Private Practice and Grey’s. It would be nice, considering he is gone again tomorrow for a week, if he would just load the dishwasher for once!!! Or maybe spend time with his family, before he leaves tomorrow. I know that it’s sooo not a big deal, its easy to load the dishwasher. But when he walks in the door, his work is done for the day. My work is never done, i’m on call!! If the baby wakes up in the night, who goes running?? when my son wets the bed, who changes the sheets at 3am?? It would just be nice, for once, to be able to sit on the couch and relax while someone else takes care of the chores. Aside from today, and yesterday, he is a great father and partner. I do love him. But right now, I don’t even want to look at him!!!! I’m sorry for anyone who actually read this craziness, but I just had to get that off my chest before I explode. And the kitchen is still a disaster, looks like I have my work cut out for me….