- 11 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
here’s my 2 cents.
You need to talk to your Fiance first and foremost. If he isn’t going to support you on this, then what else will he NOT support you on? Talk to him, explain how important to you this is and that you do NOT appreciate her behavior, the secrets, and it’s NOT respectful to you. And since he’s marrying you, it’s being disrespectful to him, also. Sure it’s his sister, but you’re going to be his WIFE.
Second, the behavior is uncalled for, petty, and disrespectful. It isn’t the fact she’s trying to copy you, it’s the fact she’s being deceitful and cruel. She obviously KNOWS this hurts you. (something you should ALSO mention to your Fiance… and question why he isn’t standing up to his family for you… at least, I would…)
If were me: I’d have the talk with my Fiance then say if it doesn’t change, and she doesn’t start telling and NOT wear what I’d be wearing, she’s OUT.
I am soooo sorry you’re having to go through this. Hope you and your Fiance can get it smoothed out without any hurt feelings.